Be Benevolent
Here in December, as we approach the holiday season, it is the time to amp up care and concern for others. The spirit of benevolence lies right at the heart of any humane, non-secular practice. Whether Christian, Jewish, Buddhist or Muslim, being benevolent and extending basic kindness toward others is …
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Sleep is the Ultimate Yoga
Here at year’s end it is time to enter a big sleep known as the yoga nidra. Through this practice, we dissolve the many holding patterns that have accumulated over the course of the year and come to a place of deep rest. Sleep, we could say, is one of …
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Give Thanks
For too many days now you have been straying far and wide, rushing out to meet the needs of the world. Time now to come home, to sit by the hearth of your own inner calling and feel into all that you hold inside— the ache, the sorrow, the ambivalence, …
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Remember, Remember, Remember
Once I spoke the language of flowers, Once I understood each word the caterpillar said, Once I smiled in secret at the gossip of starlings, And shared a conversation with a housefly in my bed. Once I heard and answered all the questions of the crickets, and joined the crying …
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The Staggering Genius of the Old Reptilian Brain
In our practice we move like salamanders, tadpoles and lizards. We become amphibious creatures, sometimes gill-breathing and aquatic, at other times terrestrial lung-breathers. We stay close to the ground, move slowly, and sense vibration. For long stretches of time, we stay perfectly still, sensing the world through our skin, tongue …
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Honoring the Ancestors on All Souls Day
We live in a world that presses headlong into the future, hell-bent on progress and gain, never looking back. But this is the time of year to halt the harried forward push, to pause and reflect on the lives that came before. On All Souls Day we remember the departed …
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In the Company of Angels
Like the pattern of a snowflake or the imprint of a fingertip, what makes life so beautiful is that every single being is unique. We could say that too about our arrival into this world, that each delivery at birth is unique. So it resonates true for the way we …
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Change Like the Wind
It is amazing how the death of a loved one puts everything so swiftly, so suddenly— snap— into perspective. Death is like a chiropractic adjustment where your entire world, just like that, aligns true. People say that following the death of a beloved, you see them everywhere around you. I …
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Aloneness is Next to Godliness: Bedside with My Mother
When you spend time alone, which most of us do most of the time these days, there are two ways to go. First you could feel shuttered in, landlocked, overcome by a feeling of lack. This is an isolated feeling, like a solitary tree in the meadow. Or when alone, …
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Into Thin Air: Bedside with My Mother
For those of us on the path of a contemplative practice, it is a gift to witness the dying. For two hours, or two days or– as the case may be– weeks on end it is possible to witness a person, together with their entire lifetime and karmic history dissolve …
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